This Thursday is Thanksgiving. One day in which we like those early Pilgrims set aside time in our busy schedules to give thanks to God. Now, there is nothing wrong with that but the word of God tells us that this should be a continual, daily, attitude.

Eph. 5:19,20 tells Christians to "Speak to one another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs. Sing and make music in your heart to the Lord, ALWAYS giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ."

And I Thes. 5:16-18 says, "Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in
Christ Jesus."

Paul’s main subject here is PRAISE, THANKSGIVING. Notice the other important words in these passages; ALWAYS, CONTINUALLY, and IN ALL CIRCUMSTANCES. It sounds as if Paul is talking about a church service here, especially in Eph. "Speak to one another with psalms, hymns and spiritual songs. Sing and make music in your
heart..." But he isn’t. He is talking about a continual attitude for Christians - an attitude of the heart. How we are to be to each other. But how, you may wonder, can we have this
attitude continually, especially "in all circumstances?" I believe the answer lies in our perspective of thanksgiving. We need the proper perspective.

To be thankful in all circumstances, we need a proper perspective of our circumstances and of our God. Only then we will be able to give thanks to the Lord always.

Now, I believe there are at least three attitudes that steal away our gratitude. Three things that keep us from being thankful.

1) One is our pride. This is the attitude that says, "Nobody ever gave me anything, I worked hard for everything I have." For years
you studied hard and now it is finally paying off. With this kind of attitude, we feel that we have no one to thank but ourselves.

2) Another attitude that keeps us from being thankful is a critical spirit or constant complaining. Instead of being grateful, this person will always find something to complain about.

"A lady known as an incurable grumbler constantly complained about everything. At last her preacher thought he had found something about which she would be happy, for her farm crop was the finest for miles around. When he met her, he said with a beaming smile, `You must be very happy Mary. Everyone is saying how healthy your potatoes look this year.’ `True they’re pretty good, but what am I going to do when I need bad ones to feed the pigs.’"

3) A third attitude that keeps us from being grateful is carelessness. Someone once said that if the stars only came out once a year, we would stay out all night to watch them. But
they are there every night and we have grown a costumed to them.

The Israelites grumbled because they had no food so God miraculously sent manna (a crust-like bread) to cover the ground each day except the sabbath day. Then they started to grumble because it was the same thing every day.

They had a miracle - straight from God every day but were no longer satisfied. Because of pride, carelessness or a critical spirit we will never be truly thankful for all that God has given us.

THANKSGIVING SHOULD BE EXPRESSED

One of the choruses we sing is found in Ps.100 which says, "Enter his gates with thanksgiving in your heart." David says in Ps. 107
"Give thanks to the Lord for he is good." We should express our thanks to God and others.

In Luke 17 we read about ten men who were healed by Jesus of their leprosy. Out of those ten men only one came back to give thanks and Jesus said, "Where are the other nine?" He was the only one willing to take time to go back and say "thank you." Because of that Jesus said to him, "Rise and go; your faith has made you well."

Have you ever wondered why Jesus said that? I mean like the others, the man was already healed of his leprosy from the time they went to show themselves to the priest. But when Jesus says to this one man, "Your faith has made you well,"he wasn’t just talking about a physical healing, he was talking about a spiritual one, a mental one. He was made whole.

We too are made whole by our thanksgiving. Psychologists today tell us that sincere gratitude, thanksgiving, is the healthiest of all human emotions. Hans Selye, who is considered the father of stress studies, has said that gratitude produces more positive emotional energy than any other attitude in life.

And a thankful heart will endear others to us and us to others.
For you see thanksgiving is not only good for the giver but also good for the receiver.

God appreciates our thanksgiving. It lifts Him up and it glorifies Him. And thanksgiving endears him to us. It draws us closer. If we are not grateful, if we do not express our thanksgiving, then it can have the opposite affect. In Rom. 1:21 Paul says, "For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened."

This passage seems to imply that people who are ungrateful to God will soon fall away - their hearts will become hardened. Here, we see pride keeping people from worshipping God and being thankful.

OUR THANKSGIVING SHOULD BE EXPANSIVE

And as our thanksgiving expands, it should include 3 things;

1) The Blessings of Life.

How many of us thank God for our sink full of dirty dishes?

But we should. A sink full of dirty dishes usually means that we have been blessed by God with daily food & water.

Do you realize that two thirds of the world goes to bed hungry every night?

Our prayers are often very general. We say, "Thank you God for all your blessings" but what blessings are we really thankful for? Count your blessings...name them one by one...count your blessings see what God has done.

Our Thanksgiving should also include

2) The Burdens of Life.

This is a tough one. I Thes. 5:18 says, "Give thanks in ALL circumstances." Eph. 5:20 says, "always giving thanks." You may think, surely Paul made a mistake or even that this was easy for him to say. But it wasn’t. Paul suffered from some very difficult problem that he called a thorn in the flesh. He also had been run out of town, beaten, whipped, imprisoned, betrayed by friends, naked, cold, hungry shipwrecked, and stoned because of his faith. Yet, Paul never stopped giving thanks.

Paul said several things that really show he had the proper perspective of the burdens of life...

"I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing to the glory that will be revealed in us..." Rm 8:18

"That is why for Christ’s sake, I delight in weakness, in insults, in hardships, in persecution, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong..." 2 Cor 12:10

"Now I want you to know brothers that what has happened to me has really served to advance the Gospel..." Phil 1:12

When we like Paul have the proper perspective we to can give thanks in all circumstances...

In our weakness God can make us strong. When we are struggling God is able to work in our lives. He helps us through times that we could have never faced on our own.

The Philipian Jailer was ready to take his life because an earthquake freed his prisoners but what saved him was the attitude of Peter and Silas during their difficult imprisonment. They were singing and praising God even though they were in chains. But, they knew God and that he would help them through. Because of
their joy the jailer and all his household became Christians.

Understand others can come to Christ because of your example especially in the midst of difficult times.

Our thanksgiving should include

3) The benefits of life as well.

When the Israelites focused on what they didn’t have, they failed to see ALL that they DID have. We are constantly adding to our prayer list but more than anything we should be adding to our
praise list.

An experiment was done in New York’s Central Park where an advertizing firm dressed a man up as a blind man and gave him a cup to collect money. One day they put a sign around his neck that read, "I’m Blind." On that day he collected about $4.00. The next day they dressed him the same way, placed him in the same place but changed the sign to read, "It’s Spring and I’m Blind." That day he collected nearly $40.00. That day, those people realized how blessed they were by the beautiful flowers, birds, the sunrise and sunset.

And as Christians there are other benefits of life. We can be sure that we are forgiven and free. Oh, It’s good to be alive!

Not only should our Thanksgiving be expressed and expanded but also we learn that,

OUR THANKSGIVING IS EXPECTED

Paul says we are to "give thanks in all circumstances BECAUSE this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus." This is God’s will for us. And he knows, if we will do it, that our lives will be changed.

1) This is the mark of a Growing Christian.

For example, a baby is ungrateful. You can take a little baby when it has colic and walk the floor with them for hours and when you put that baby down - they don’t say, "Thank You." More than likely, they will just yell a little louder. A child has to be taught to be thankful. It just doesn’t come naturally. Sometimes you have to almost force them to say thank you.

When we realize how blessed we are by others and by God and express that - we are growing.

2) Our thanksgiving is also the mark of a Giving Christian.

When we realize how much God has done for us and how much he continues to do, we should be more than happy to give something
back to him. This comes through our time and also our financial giving. Someone has said that for Thanksgiving to be real Thanksgiving, There must be "Thanks" and there must be "Giving."

JCMI, our church has been truly blessed by God. We have seen people come forward and be baptized into Christ, we have seen many families place their membership here, we have seen our operating debt go away and our giving go up....

Just as our congregation has grown, so have our needs. And just as God has blessed us - so should we bless his work by our giving. James 1:17 says, "Every good gift and every perfect gift (do you have any good gifts in your life?) is from above, and comes down from the father of lights."

When we go to a restaurant, we are more than happy to give a good waitress a 15% tip, but for some reason, many have a problem with giving God 10% of all the good gifts he has given us. We need to ask ourselves if we are truly thankful.

Remember God loves a cheerful giver.....

Thanksgiving is a mark of a growing Christian, a giving Christian and

3) A Glowing Christian.

If you are thankful to God then you will be glowing. Your will not
be constantly critical and pessimistic but eternally Thankful. Though the difficult times are just that - they will not break you.

Paul says in II Cor. 4:8,

"We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed but not in despair; persecuted but not abandoned; struck down but not destroyed...For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but what is unseen."

Yes the Psalmist was right, ’It is a good thing to give thanks unto the Lord."

Have you been going through some difficult times?

Have you prayed but they’re still there?

Have you told yourself to keep on going and it would some day disappear - but it got deeper?

Then why not try THANKSGIVING?

God Bless...

Pastor Dante